Andy Roy – author of Raising Teenage Boys
With male suicide rates at alarming levels, men today struggle to define what it truly means to be a ‘man.’ Through my own journey of self-discovery, I offer insights to help others navigate their inner world, reclaim their authentic selves and live a happier, more fulfilling life.
“Man Unplugged – Secret Men’s Business For Men & Those Who Love Them“ is a raw and deeply personal exploration of my own unravelling, backed by the wisdom of mentors, sages, and healers. This book distils hard-won lessons into an accessible, relatable guide for every man ready to reclaim his true self.
I once believed that having a good job, financial security, and social status meant success. But when I lost everything, I realised I had been sleepwalking through life, disconnected from my Heart.
At rock bottom, I met a mentor who helped me break free from society’s rigid definitions of masculinity.
I unwittingly became a man … unplugged.
This book shares the lessons, tools, and practices that transformed my life, so you, too, can step into confidence, authenticity, and a life filled with purpose.
Author of Man Unplugged
Man Unplugged cuts through layers of complex issues facing men, often woven into our most trusted relationships and masked by social norms. John combines personal insights, real-life experiences and practical tools from experts, inviting readers to engage with this second....
Man Unplugged is a comprehensive overview of the intriguing and thoroughly necessary world of “men’s business”, made real and accessible by the author’s selfless and generous sharing of his own journey. It is like chatting with a mate, whilst having....
Got myself a copy. Man Unplugged is one of those essential road maps for the masculine soul. Terry McArthur ~ Author/poet/songwriter
....Reading John’s “Man Unplugged” feels like pulling up a chair with a wise mate, laughing at the mess, then quietly facing the big stuff together. The book reminds us as parents that “When a child is born, a father is....
Man Unplugged is a synthesis and evolution of all the disparate strands of ‘men’s business’ written in an intimate, layered and authentic voice. Katerina Katerina Cosgrove ~ Author (https://www.authorcosgrove.com/books)
....Man Unplugged provides incredibly valuable insights into the importance of a present and engaged father/father figure. In an ever-changing, confusing and expanding world, in which the role of the contemporary man and father has become convoluted and even demonised at....
Man Unplugged cuts through layers of complex issues facing men, often woven into our most trusted relationships and masked by social norms. John combines personal insights, real-life experiences and practical tools from experts, inviting readers to engage with this second....
Man Unplugged is a comprehensive overview of the intriguing and thoroughly necessary world of “men’s business”, made real and accessible by the author’s selfless and generous sharing of his own journey. It is like chatting with a mate, whilst having....
Got myself a copy. Man Unplugged is one of those essential road maps for the masculine soul. Terry McArthur ~ Author/poet/songwriter
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“John has an incredible gift for supporting men through each transition of life”
Whether you call it a midlife crisis, midlife calling, midlife passage or the tunnel of darkness, his care, compassion and wisdom make him an ideal ally in times of deep personal pain. I am incredibly grateful to have John in my corner as I continue to navigate my way through midlife and beyond.
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“ Having had the opportunity to work with John for a number of years nowt ”
“I have seen something very special in him that is rare in today’s world. He has the air of the wise elder in the room and this presents in a calm, humble and vulnerable way.
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“ I have had the utmost pleasure of having John as a coach and mentor for one and a half years now ”
“I have had coaches in the past and did not have great success and had almost given up hope of finding the ‘right fit’ coach.
From Engineer to Mentor – My Journey
In 1991, at 33, I was like most men—working a solid job but completely disconnected from my emotions. My ‘awakening’ led me on a global quest to understand what it truly means to be a man.
Many men go through life feeling disconnected from their true selves. Society pressures them to
Being a man today means navigating societal expectations that link masculinity to power and emotional
Every transformation starts with guidance. Historically, men learned from mentors and elders, but today, many